In this article I'll try to demonstrate, both through Scripture and through logics, that God does love everybody, even though the pastor of your congregation doesn't think so. Hoping this will be useful.
People often do not realize that many Christians nowadays believe that God actually does hate almost everybody. They quote a passage that, according to their interpretation, gives a "proof" of the fact that God doesn't love everybody. There are also many other passages that seem to teach the same, but since the below argument fits all of them, they are not listed here. This verse is Psalm 11:5. According to these "God-hates-you preachers", God's love is not for anybody, but is only for those who act according to His will. For a Calvinist, it'd be even more: God preordained somebody to be hated by Him forever and ever. But let's examine this verse in order to see whether it really states that God hates somebody or not.
In Psalm 11:5, David says: Jehovah the righteous doth try. And the wicked and the lover of violence, hath His soul hated. (YLT). Yet, if we were to read the verb "to hate" literally, we should do it also in this verse: [With] perfect hatred, I [i. e. King David] have hated them, enemies they have become to me (Psalm 139:22). We can clearly understand that, since Jesus asked us to love our enemies, we cannot suppose that the author of the book of Psalms, inspired by God, hated his enemies literally. Otherwise, we'd have to choose between David's God and Jesus's God, who is good even to the wicked (Luke 6:35), and between David's ethics and Jesus's ethics. The former, in fact, tells us that we can "hate perfectly" those who hate God, while the latter taught that we must "love perfectly" even our enemies, and to be perfect, for the Father is perfect as well (Matthew 5:48). But are we really to make this choice?
In Psalm 11:5, David says: Jehovah the righteous doth try. And the wicked and the lover of violence, hath His soul hated. (YLT). Yet, if we were to read the verb "to hate" literally, we should do it also in this verse: [With] perfect hatred, I [i. e. King David] have hated them, enemies they have become to me (Psalm 139:22). We can clearly understand that, since Jesus asked us to love our enemies, we cannot suppose that the author of the book of Psalms, inspired by God, hated his enemies literally. Otherwise, we'd have to choose between David's God and Jesus's God, who is good even to the wicked (Luke 6:35), and between David's ethics and Jesus's ethics. The former, in fact, tells us that we can "hate perfectly" those who hate God, while the latter taught that we must "love perfectly" even our enemies, and to be perfect, for the Father is perfect as well (Matthew 5:48). But are we really to make this choice?
Jesus said that we must hate our families, if we want to be His disciples (Luke 14:26), yet Paul says that those who don't care about their families are worse than non-believers (1Timothy 5:8). Does Jesus want us to be bad fathers, mothers, children, and by doing so being worse than non-believers? The point is that neither in the book of Psalms nor in the Gospel the word "hate" is meant to be litteral, as any wise scholar would know. Unluckily, many "hatred doctrines" were formulated by people who had no real "biblical knowledge" nor did ever study biblical languages. Unfortunately, most of pastors and preacher don't know even a word in ancient Greek, so no wonder they know the Bible only for how they were taught to read it in seminary. Besides, if God hated somebody, it would be a contradiction towards His own nature. In fact, we know from 1John 4:8 that God is Love, and in Deuteronomy 6:4 we read that God is one. From cover to cover, no Bible verse says that God "is" justice, vengeance or else but love. So, if God hates, He's a "hating love", which makes no sense, unless we say either "hate" or "love" doesn't have their common meaning. But we know the word "love" means "love": test it by yourselves and read 1John 4:7, 9-11. The only word that can have another meaning than the ordinary one, as we also see in the verse quoted above (Psalm 139:22), is "hate".
Besides, consider this. Hatred is a research of punishment, of chastisment. If hatred ceases, then punishment ends too, so a "perfect hatred" must reach, some day, the time when it ends, because it has been satisfied. If somebody hates forever, then this "somebody" cannot be perfect, because he/she is in a continuous research of punishment for enemies, without ever reaching a satisfaction point. That is, somebody who hates is looking for something that has not reached yet. If we apply this paradigm to God, we say that He will continually be un-satisfied by chastisment, that He will forever be looking for something, without ever finding it. So, if God is perfect, then His hatred must be perfect as well, that means that it will reach an end (look up the etymology of the word "perfect"!). So, we have a changement in God's mind: He "used" to hate sinners, but then stops. But what do we know from God: He does not change (Malachi 3:6).
On the other hand, let's see whether God loves everybody or not. We know that the Bible states that "God loved the world" (John 3:16), that He "wants everybody to be saved and come to the Truth" (1Timothy 2:3-4). We also know that Jesus is the exact representation of God's being (Hebrews 1:3), so we can rely on His behaviour in order to understand God's heart. And what do we know from Jesus? He forgave His own murderers (Luke 23:34), He loved a man who would not be His disciple (Mark 10:21), He came to save sinners (Matthew 9:13) and to find the lost sheep (Luke 15:1-7). I believe that this, together with many verses which are not listed here, can be enough evidence for God's love toward everyone.
"Fear not, for I am thy God" (Isaiah 41:10).
Besides, consider this. Hatred is a research of punishment, of chastisment. If hatred ceases, then punishment ends too, so a "perfect hatred" must reach, some day, the time when it ends, because it has been satisfied. If somebody hates forever, then this "somebody" cannot be perfect, because he/she is in a continuous research of punishment for enemies, without ever reaching a satisfaction point. That is, somebody who hates is looking for something that has not reached yet. If we apply this paradigm to God, we say that He will continually be un-satisfied by chastisment, that He will forever be looking for something, without ever finding it. So, if God is perfect, then His hatred must be perfect as well, that means that it will reach an end (look up the etymology of the word "perfect"!). So, we have a changement in God's mind: He "used" to hate sinners, but then stops. But what do we know from God: He does not change (Malachi 3:6).
On the other hand, let's see whether God loves everybody or not. We know that the Bible states that "God loved the world" (John 3:16), that He "wants everybody to be saved and come to the Truth" (1Timothy 2:3-4). We also know that Jesus is the exact representation of God's being (Hebrews 1:3), so we can rely on His behaviour in order to understand God's heart. And what do we know from Jesus? He forgave His own murderers (Luke 23:34), He loved a man who would not be His disciple (Mark 10:21), He came to save sinners (Matthew 9:13) and to find the lost sheep (Luke 15:1-7). I believe that this, together with many verses which are not listed here, can be enough evidence for God's love toward everyone.
"Fear not, for I am thy God" (Isaiah 41:10).
